What is the responsibility as a child? As a child we should always listen to our parents no matter it is correct or wrong? Do you have a good relationship with your parents? All time I was thinking about how is the child maintain a good relationship with parents.
For what we know are as a child there is no right to offend our parents, no matter in what should be parents come first, because parents are the one who give birth us, raise us up. Yap, that's right also, but for me I think that as parents should be understanding also.
In our century now, no longer as last time, this is a modern century, the way to teach a child is already change. We need a care and concern from our parents, yet is not control. Parents always don't know how to differentiate care and concern with control.
Sometime parents do not realise that they are really do over until they become too control. I know every parents have different thinking and I understand what are they worry about. But are they trying to understand what their children want? Parents always do everything is good for their children. Parents will always plan and decide the road for their children to go. As a child, we should really appreciate all the things that our parents done for us.
However, parents should also let their children try to choose their own road. I guess not every road that parents choose for their children is really what their children want. We will also have our own planning right? What don't parents try to talk with their children and listen to their opinion. Understand and analyse what is their thought and try to let them walk their own road and guide them beside. Don't always just got a traditional minded which is parents always right.
Well, as what I know, parents will always said their children are not mature enough. Don't have the ability to choose the right way. I'm just curious about why don't parents give their children a chance to try? When we are still under age which mean 18 years old, surely parents must put more attention to us. Because this is the stage that we are easily to get influence by outsiders.
Okay let's say 18 years old still not mature enough how about when we reach 21 years old and go on? I think sometime parents should learn how to let go. If parents know how to be a friend with their children, there is much more better. But remember do not push them too much. If not they will feel scare with their parents and maybe will become more treachery.
Parents and children must have a good communication way, if not there will be a gap. If let the gap continuously go on, how the parents and children can maintain a good relationship.
Hope that those parents can really learn the words "let go", and as a child know how to coordinate with their parents, so that they can have a good relationship in happy family.
How to define FOREVER? Can anyone really give a very detail explanation of it? Sometime when you listen that people always mention what forever love or forever friend. What do you think? Do you feel warm or happy with it? Yea, maybe you do, but in reality do you think it is work?
Someone told me before, never believe in forever. Some of you might say that depend how you look at it. But I think no one can really say this word especially when you want to make a promise to someone in something.
Okay, lets talk about love. In this moment maybe you love the person so much, you will say: "I will love you forever." Just because of your forever, people will think that you already make a promise to he/she, do you know that? What about one day you do not love the person anymore? It is curious for others that do you still remember what you had said before? So please do not simply put the word "forever" at your sentence.
Come to friendship. Everyone got their own friends right. Do you think sometime you are too easy to trust a person? When you had go through something tough with your friend, you will start to believe he/she, you feel that he/she willing to go through those tough things with you, you list he/she as your best or close friend. You will call this as friendship and you start to think this can last forever. You might even tell others that you and your friend will have friendship forever, you are full of confidence with it. Do you think before actually this is just your own mind, is not what your friend's mind. So please don't be too ambitious.
For what I can see currently which is people use the word "forever" is without any meaning inside. In the moment they love or care each other, no matter in love or in friendship and they will say it lasts forever, that's it.
Welcome everyone come to my space. Don't be surprise that I'm blogging now, actually is because of create a blog is a part of my assignment in my previous semester. Since I am already got a account here, so don't feel like wasting it.
Someone told me before that writing can actually relax yourself. This is a good place to release everything that you wish to voice it but you can't make it. I would like to have a try with it.
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