Parents

What is the responsibility as a child? As a child we should always listen to our parents no matter it is correct or wrong? Do you have a good relationship with your parents? All time I was thinking about how is the child maintain a good relationship with parents.

For what we know are as a child there is no right to offend our parents, no matter in what should be parents come first, because parents are the one who give birth us, raise us up. Yap, that's right also, but for me I think that as parents should be understanding also.

In our century now, no longer as last time, this is a modern century, the way to teach a child is already change. We need a care and concern from our parents, yet is not control. Parents always don't know how to differentiate care and concern with control.

Sometime parents do not realise that they are really do over until they become too control. I know every parents have different thinking and I understand what are they worry about. But are they trying to understand what their children want? Parents always do everything is good for their children. Parents will always plan and decide the road for their children to go. As a child, we should really appreciate all the things that our parents done for us.

However, parents should also let their children try to choose their own road. I guess not every road that parents choose for their children is really what their children want. We will also have our own planning right? What don't parents try to talk with their children and listen to their opinion. Understand and analyse what is their thought and try to let them walk their own road and guide them beside. Don't always just got a traditional minded which is parents always right.

Well, as what I know, parents will always said their children are not mature enough. Don't have the ability to choose the right way. I'm just curious about why don't parents give their children a chance to try? When we are still under age which mean 18 years old, surely parents must put more attention to us. Because this is the stage that we are easily to get influence by outsiders.

Okay let's say 18 years old still not mature enough how about when we reach 21 years old and go on? I think sometime parents should learn how to let go. If parents know how to be a friend with their children, there is much more better. But remember do not push them too much. If not they will feel scare with their parents and maybe will become more treachery.

Parents and children must have a good communication way, if not there will be a gap. If let the gap continuously go on, how the parents and children can maintain a good relationship.

Hope that those parents can really learn the words "let go", and as a child know how to coordinate with their parents, so that they can have a good relationship in happy family.